how to score a date

               HOW TO SCORE A DATE

• a casual 'let's go get ice cream' or 'can we go to the movies' goes a long way. it might hard since technically it's your crush, but you never can tell if they like you too if you don't get an alone time with em......
• embrace what you might think are your flaws; that little birthmark on your chin, your gap tooth, those freckles, whatever it is. confidence is an important element when you want someone to get attracted to you. confidence is undoubtedly hot.
• A good sense of humour. Don't act all too stiff and nervous around your crush, loosen up. Everyone loves to laugh, and who doesn't want to date someone who makes them laugh all the time?
•  Its totally cool to let em know how passionate you are about a particular thing. Be it your love for Rihanna, Manchester united, Roadchef burger, photography. It's totally alright to go on about what you love. I personally love to see how a person’s face lights up when they’re talking about what they love, say sound engineering for instance.😉
•  It's okay to flirt. Everybody likes a compliment, so telling him how you like how that t-shirt makes his blue eyes pop or greeting him with a flirty hug instead of a wave, or telling her how that shade of lippie makes her smile more alluring than it already is, just pushes you closer to your goal.
•  offer to split the bill, not only does this show that you like him for him, not the free food, he also gets to keep some extra cash. And who doesn’t like some extra every now and then.
•  When you remember the name of his favorite sport club, or the colour of her outfit for her first dance, or the make of his dream car. When they know you really are listening, makes them see you in a long term light.
• When you genuinely are interested in what makes them tick. Girls abandon going to the movies today and opt for a call of duty, gta or fifa day in. trust me he’d love it.
• Show DESIRE Without Dependence, i read about this sometime ago and stumbled on it again when prepping for this article. Its a blend of playing it cool and not playing it cool, like an in between thing.
  ‘I remember once when I was dating a woman and I texted her, asking if she wanted to do something that evening. She texted back saying: “I’m going to that concert I told you about tonight with my friends. I’m so excited, but I would be even more excited if you were here with me.”’ (exert)
  This vividly lets him know you know how to have a good time without him, but clearly DESIRE for him to be there, without being DEPENDENT.
• When they start to show some level of interest, do not push em away by jumping the gun and being possessive. Give them a chance to miss you. Do not be available every minute until you become official.
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  ‘Let Him Know Your Boundaries. Men respond to women who show self-respect. And this means sticking to your own boundaries.

  If a guy calls you at 10pm and it’s obvious he’s only after sex, then it’s up to you to decide what you want. If you just want sex with this guy, then by all means go for it! But if you want him to invest emotionally and not simply treat you as a booty call, send him this response: “I’m not really the kind of girl who does a 10pm meet-up unless I’m actually with someone. But if you want to meet up sometime at a more sociable hour I would be up for that.”

  This is a confident way of showing your boundaries, yet it doesn’t come off as a harsh rejection. It shows you to be someone whose standards he wants to live up to. Respect your needs in a relationship, and a man will know you’re someone he has to take seriously if he wants to see you again’.

  This is a total copy and paste as i couldn’t say it any better.

try these things and lemme know how much it helps in scoring that big date you want.

love, Mercy.